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My man has been trying to cheer me up. 

He knows my taste in clothes; leather, corsets, stockings, heels etc. and enjoys it.  He thinks that I should wear something sexy for him.  And strangely also for my son!  It would show him that I’m confident and carrying on as normal.  He said that when his wife died he let things slip and it was his sister who pulled him round and told him always to attract a woman.  That way they’d get positive vibes and would not think him a loser.  I’ll admit I did that when my husband died too, and I suppose being confident and sexy, but not overtly so, does help.

He also showed me this video and asked if I had anything that was similar.

Not in silk or cotton, but I’m now dressed in a black leather corset with a similar, but not so extreme neckline, a calf length leather skirt and a short matching jacket that shows a good bit of cleavage.  I feel better!  Especially, as I’ve only got my thigh-length stiletto boots and a pair of hold-ups underneath.

And he knows it!

Written by alison73

Sunday, October 18, 2009 at 9:47 am

Posted in Clothes, Corset

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  1. Hi Alison

    I am sorry to about hear your latest round of bad news. I am sure that you will be Ok with the support of your man.

    Its horrible seeing your children ill. A few years ago my youngest, who was probably 13, had an issue with his testicles. The surgeon suspected cancer, which fortunately it wasn’t but botched the op and as a result his scrotum swelled to the size of a small footballand one of the testicles died. Had to have specialist care by a plastic surgeon to repair the damage but he has bounced back and is a very active sportsman.

    On a lighter note, I’m pleased to see that your man is carrying on with the tradition of corsetting you. Is he in to metal underwear as well?

    Take care and don’t forget to look after yourself whilst nursing your son.

    S4lwa

    Sunday, October 18, 2009 at 12:52 pm

  2. He knows about the metal underwear, is intrigued by it, has seen me in it, but it goes against his principles of always being kind to ladies.

    He was worried about corsetting me too tight, until I showed him what it felt like to be properly laced. He didn’t bother after that!

    alison73

    Sunday, October 18, 2009 at 1:11 pm

  3. But surely the metal underwear is being kind to Ladies in that it gives them extra protection from unwanted advances!!

    S4lwa

    Sunday, October 18, 2009 at 5:34 pm

  4. But it is a nuisance when advances are wanted. And anyway he’s here at the moment, so being knickerless is so convenient.

    alison73

    Sunday, October 18, 2009 at 6:00 pm

  5. Hey there;
    Been a long time since looking for your blog.
    Sorry you and your son are having to go down the cancer road, prayers to y’all.

    That is a pretty dress she’s got in that video. Fabric brings something oriental to mind.

    Cut of corset top looks like it might pinch a bit in underarms. Other than that, wow.

    Still working on sweet talking my gal into one – she has a valid point in wondering if will it cause a claustrophobia attack.

    Yes, men like corsets on women. :D And I’m pretty sure women like for us men to like women. Maybe us men and the women can work out some kind of agreement?

    Forrest

    Wednesday, December 23, 2009 at 6:04 am


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